Would you date/marry someone who had gastric byp surgery?

Wow hon. Sounds like you need to work on your self esteem issues. None of your list should matter to someone who is in love with you. Seriously! That's the trouble with these types of surgery, you lose weight, but you don't lose the reasons/issues you were obese in the first place. I would recommend going to therapy to deal with your issues before you start transferring your food addiction to another addiction (i.e. alcoholism, drugs, , gambling, etc.